WHY DOESN’T ALPHA MALE EXIST? | Reflection on the Gender War

The text explores the concept of alpha and beta masculinity, arguing that traditional definitions are narrow and limiting. The author challenges the idea that being an “alpha male” is solely about attracting women, wealth, or power over others. Instead, they propose that true alpha masculinity is about living according to one’s vocation and purpose—pursuing something meaningful that motivates and fulfills a person. The author emphasizes that masculinity is not defined by femininity but by personal will and self-realization. Rather than seeking external validation, such as female approval, true masculinity is about internal growth and living for a higher purpose. In this sense, respect from others, including women, becomes a natural consequence of living authentically rather than the goal itself. The author suggests that understanding and pursuing one’s true calling is what makes someone “alpha.”